I know you have had many positions that just never seem to work for you, you are "Laid Off" after 6 months over and over again, or you quit because it did not work for you. I wish I could be so cavalieri but I have bills to pay and I have a fabric monkey on my back. When I first met you, as I do with anyone and everyone who is new I try to help.You did not have anything to wear in the SCA and I have patterns, books and sewing machines, a match made in heaven.
When you came to my home and I showed you what is typically used in the SCA this was not an invitation to take my fabrics, someone had tried to help you, and the neckline was tragic, so I used some of my fabrics to make it look better. Again this was not an inviation to then go into my stash and pick out things you would like to have. When I saw the pile you have placed together, including 6 yards of $68.00 cashmere wool, I told you so. One would have thought my being spefic would have told you but I guess not.
When our next A&S Solar arrived and I brought some patterns I had created to show how things are done, you picked them at the end and placed them into your box. I am so sorry I guess when I said "These are my patterns, if you would like to make a set I can show you all how" was actually an inviation for you just to abscound with my things.
As the months progressed to Tourney Season, you whined and were given a pavilion, you decorated it very nicely from paints you were given. You got a slat bed from someone else and that again is what the SCA is known for......
My Household is not your household. We are known for feeding people, it comes from having too many cooks! We love to cook, so as no surprise we offer people what extra we have.
I am so sorry you misunderstood our being generous with being patsies. So you told me you hated my Blue sauce, you had not tried but it did not 'look' appitizing, hmmmph yet you walked out of our camp with both the bowl and half a roasted chicken. Something I was going to use for that night's dinner. You would not know since you are not on our meal plan nor in our household planning..
Okay so I avoid you, I don't find your thought of what the SCA is, to be something I choose to deal with, but then I hear you, because we live in Canvas Tents, so voices travel, you telling other new to the SCA not to bring anything to eat and people will feed you, that if you do not have fabric ask me, because I have silks and Linens and other things I will just give you, and if you speak ouit loudly enough??? You too can get a Pavilion for free, and a bed as well.
I don't want to curry facor, I don't want to encourage gossip, I waited until you were alone at this same event and called you out. Now you are claiming I am a bully, and very mean.
You just can't win for losing, what is a person who behaves like this called?? A Moocher